A question of honour:

[billy]

Basically you want to do your best to wrap your mind around everything, to the best if your ability, so that you can honor others appropriately. And if you accomplish that, you deserve to feel honorable. It's not simple though. The more you're able to consider things, the more responsibility falls on you.---Others need to chime in here. That's what you want, isn't it? I keep running my mouth.

any and all or just you is fine
i think we can act with honour and bestow honour, but they're not the same
think of samuri who live by a code, and die by it. The yakuza while criminal also have an honour code, and pay a self inflicted or ordered price should they break it. many of them cut off a finger if they disrespect their boss. (disrespect could be as little as letting him dow, or going against his orders.) the premise is that the loss of a finger is not as great as the loss of the life. and the boss doesn't lose a worker.

soldiers often live by a code of honour