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Are teachers just having sex with kids more these days, or has it always been this way and the explosion of social media and a 24-hour news cycle is bringing it to the forefront?
It seems like there's always a new story popping up.
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Sadly, I worry more about the school volunteers than anyone else.  I think sports coaches have a reputation for being the worst offenders (the guy coaching your daughter's traveling volleyball team). Then again, the bus driver knows where you live.....
I think that people are more willing to make a public spectacle out of someone caught doing bad things because there's no personal connection to someone halfway across the country, whereas before it meant turning on a member of your community. That's my take on it, anyway.
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Eew... thinking of my students like that is just gross
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I think people are just more protective of their kids these days. When I was in highschool my creative writing teacher married a girl as soon as she graduated, someone I knew had a long term relationship with the film teacher, haven't thought of them in years. I dated a teacher for a while, I remember seeing a great Van Gogh exhibit with him, then I fell in love with a guy my age.
My guy actually had a sexual relationship with a teacher when he was 12 or 13, his brothers still laugh and roll their eyes over that one.
So yeah, I think it's always gone on, maybe more so, but now everything's splashed out in the open.
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I also wonder if we turn some of these people into infamous celebrities. I'm not saying that's why they do it, but clearly there's a narrative that's being sold in the press. I wonder if I'm being desensitized to change.
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If I've learned one thing from watching porn, it's that the easiest way to improve your grade is to have sex with your teacher.
Also, does anyone know where I could apply to become a pizza delivery guy?
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(03-29-2017, 11:01 AM)ellajam Wrote: I think people are just more protective of their kids these days. When I was in highschool my creative writing teacher married a girl as soon as she graduated, someone I knew had a long term relationship with the film teacher, haven't thought of them in years. I dated a teacher for a while, I remember seeing a great Van Gogh exhibit with him, then I fell in love with a guy my age.
My guy actually had a sexual relationship with a teacher when he was 12 or 13, his brothers still laugh and roll their eyes over that one.
So yeah, I think it's always gone on, maybe more so, but now everything's splashed out in the open.
yeah, there is hitting some of that tight teenage tail, and then there is pedophilia. Sucking of a twelve year old falls into the pedo catagory.
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(03-30-2017, 12:50 PM)QDeathstar Wrote: (03-29-2017, 11:01 AM)ellajam Wrote: I think people are just more protective of their kids these days. When I was in highschool my creative writing teacher married a girl as soon as she graduated, someone I knew had a long term relationship with the film teacher, haven't thought of them in years. I dated a teacher for a while, I remember seeing a great Van Gogh exhibit with him, then I fell in love with a guy my age.
My guy actually had a sexual relationship with a teacher when he was 12 or 13, his brothers still laugh and roll their eyes over that one.
So yeah, I think it's always gone on, maybe more so, but now everything's splashed out in the open.
yeah, there is hitting some of that tight teenage tail, and then there is pedophilia. Sucking of a twelve year old falls into the pedo catagory.
i dunno. I wouldn't have minded sleeping with a 23 year old teacher when I was a boy of 13. Most boys would've agreed with me.
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well, i think a teacher doing anything like that is wrong regardless of the age. Ancient societies believed in slavery and sacrifice as well, make a point.
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(03-30-2017, 12:58 PM)QDeathstar Wrote: well, i think a teacher doing anything like that is wrong regardless of the age. Ancient societies believed in slavery and sacrifice as well, make a point.
I think he's saying that he's going to take a 10 year old as his 2nd wife. When she's 13, she'll die in childbirth because her pelvis isn't fully formed and the baby can't make its way out.
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(03-30-2017, 01:07 PM)Lizzie Wrote: (03-30-2017, 12:58 PM)QDeathstar Wrote: well, i think a teacher doing anything like that is wrong regardless of the age. Ancient societies believed in slavery and sacrifice as well, make a point.
I think he's saying that he's going to take a 10 year old as his 2nd wife. When she's 13, she'll die in childbirth because her pelvis isn't fully formed and the baby can't make its way out.
Wait, do you get pregnant every time you have sex? Seems rather inefficient to me.
I don't have a thing for 13 year olds, I like them in their late twenties and early thirties.
But when I was 13, I liked 23 year olds very much.
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(03-30-2017, 01:14 PM)Achebe Wrote: (03-30-2017, 01:07 PM)Lizzie Wrote: (03-30-2017, 12:58 PM)QDeathstar Wrote: well, i think a teacher doing anything like that is wrong regardless of the age. Ancient societies believed in slavery and sacrifice as well, make a point.
I think he's saying that he's going to take a 10 year old as his 2nd wife. When she's 13, she'll die in childbirth because her pelvis isn't fully formed and the baby can't make its way out.
Wait, do you get pregnant every time you have sex? Seems rather inefficient to me.
I don't have a thing for 13 year olds, I like them in their late twenties and early thirties.
But when I was 13, I liked 23 year olds anything with tits and a pussy very much. fixd
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Anyone in a position of authority has no business in a relationship with someone they have that control over. Even starting up a relationship after a student has left school, if that student was in the teacher's class or in some position whereby he/she exercised power over the student, then it's grooming and it's just fucking wrong.
Ideally, I'd say that there should be no real power imbalance in a healthy relationship, but that's going to fuck with all the dopey saps who think that 50 Shades of Grey is romantic and not just stalky/creepy/rapey.
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And if it was a member of my community I'd be turning them in quick smart, because there's no way I'd want to risk that kind of abuse for my kids or the children of my friends/family.
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(03-30-2017, 03:43 PM)Leanne Wrote: And if it was a member of my community I'd be turning them in quick smart, because there's no way I'd want to risk that kind of abuse for my kids or the children of my friends/family. Uh... wrong thread, but I was wondering about you and Debbie. I know she hit
well to your north but remnants are headed down towards you. Any news?
Hope things are well.
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The cyclone hit about 1500km north of us, but we're getting Debbie's soggy bottom right now. Our street's been flooded all day but luckily most of the businesses and all of the schools in South East Queensland are shut also, for today and tomorrow. On the positive side, it's bloody hot.
So, to summarise: hot, wet and blowing strong.
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(03-30-2017, 05:30 PM)Leanne Wrote: The cyclone hit about 1500km north of us, but we're getting Debbie's soggy bottom right now. Our street's been flooded all day but luckily most of the businesses and all of the schools in South East Queensland are shut also, for today and tomorrow. On the positive side, it's bloody hot.
So, to summarise: hot, wet and blowing strong. Good to hear you're ok. Living in a hurricane-prone area myself, I always think about these things.
Hot? Well, they don't call our latitudes sub-tropical for nothing.
... now back to whatever sordid topic this was.
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(03-29-2017, 07:27 AM)Todd Wrote: Are teachers just having sex with kids more these days, or has it always been this way and the explosion of social media and a 24-hour news cycle is bringing it to the forefront?
It seems like there's always a new story popping up.
These things have always happened, right? Media definitely brings so much to light now.
I think that song had an affect on everyone: "Age aint nothin but a number."
So much more happens behind the scenes. Media doesn't know everything, just collects what it can. Just imagine what slips through its fingers.
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